In practice, finding a compatible mate is almost harder because of the almost overwhelming number of potential mates. Or your daughter might be pregnant or thinking of getting pregnant in the next few years, so it's still something that you have to consider. You've got your dream job or are making plans to get it, you're busy with whatever job you do have, you have some things that you love to do outside of work, and you have a social life to keep up with. So my belief, my hope, is that once you shine a light on this stuff the behavior will change. Each person has different factors they must take into account, but for some, moving can be life-changing. The older you get, the less time you have, and the less time you feel like wasting on someone who doesn't have the same goals as you.
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I Moved to Find a Better Dating Pool
But if you're coming back to it in after some time off, I have a few suggestions based on my experiences:. So educational intermarriage—I don't know if that's a real term, maybe I just made it up—is at its lowest rate in 50 years. So the prevailing mating culture went from monogamy to polygamy, just by changing the prevailing sex ratio. Or your daughter might be pregnant or thinking of getting pregnant in the next few years, so it's still something that you have to consider. These unlimited options are great at first, but just like any decision, the sheer amount of choice ends up weighing on you. After a while, she was almost always recognized as being the woman who dated so-and-so.